Dearest,
Someone tough..
For some people, socializing is a difficult thing to do. The reason is not that they do not want to, but there is something inside them that is difficult to explain. Probably for some people to interact with the people around them is something fun and easy to do. However, there are some people who need to gather energy first.
For people who find it difficult to start conversations with other people, they need to calm their mind and then speak it afterward. They already know that there is a storm inside, so when going to interact, they have to be careful not to blow it out.
Special for those of you who accidentally blow up the storm, take your time for a moment, then close your eyes, feel your every breath. Don’t be afraid to say, hey it’s okay for a human to make small mistakes and accidentally. There are several possibilities that you are not aware of, whether it is indeed a storm explosion or your own thoughts making it up. I have to say it one more time, try to check yourself again. When those thoughts strike you, are you in a good condition?
For those of you who think of your own words, don’t be afraid to improve it for the better; by double-checking every word that was spoken, then correcting if it was wrong. We are what we have in mind, then make it an attitude that we do. Likewise, when we judge others, if the judgment is good, then it will calm your own mind. Isn’t it pointless to assume that other people think of us as bad? Even if it was completely on their mind, it would be fine. You just need to get better every day because what you think is worth, it is better for you to validate and rate before anyone else does.
Regards,
Your own mind
